What Children Want at Church

What Children Want at Church

A leader who knows their name.  Kids want to be known personally. If they get lost in the crowd, you’ll lose them. It’s vital you get them out of the row and into a small circle. 

They want to have fun. They want to laugh … play games … be kids. When parents pick up their children, there’s a reason they ask them, “Did you have fun today?” 

A lesson that will hold their attention. They want you to connect with their learning style. They want you to teach on a level they can understand. If they are saying the lesson is “boring,” guess what … it is.

They want to talk and share their thoughts. Instead of a one-sided lecture, they want to learn by being part of a conversation.

Rooms decorated with them in mind. They want environments with bright, kid-friendly colors and decorating themes connected to kid culture.   

An opportunity to serve. They don’t want to be referred to as the church of tomorrow … they want to be the church of today. They are eager to be involved and make a difference.

A friend their age. They want to build a friendship with someone in their class. 

They want to be listened to. They want someone who will listen … really listen as they share about their week … their favorite video game … their fears … their dreams … their family.

They want to be affirmed. They want someone to believe in them. Someone to see potential in them. Someone to not just encourage them to believe in God but to show them that God believes in them.

Provide these things for kids at your church and your groups will soon be overflowing with kids.

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